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Someone who has a great sense of humor, even in stressful situations

check

Someone who is honest

check

Someone with a great heart

check

Someone who is attractive and healthy·

check

Someone without an addictive personality, no heavy drug use, no heavy drinking·

check

Someone who is responsible

check

Someone who is intelligent and well read

check

Someone who is open-minded, independent and free spirited

check

Someone who is financially stable and generous

check...check

Someone who is highly creative with some sort of artistic ability that he is

passionate about

double check…that voice!

Someone who loves movies (independent films, horror, comedies, dramas,

non-commercial type, foreign, etc) and a wide range of musical taste

check

Someone who has great friends who think highly of him

check

Someone who has a close family

check

Someone who is an animal lover even if he doesn't own any

hmmm half a check…poor Sadie *grins*

Someone who is clean and organized

double check!

Someone who is mature, patient and understanding

check!

Someone who is confident on the inside but outwardly appears shy to people who

don't know him because he prefers privacy

check

Someone who has credibility and integrity

check

Someone who has the ability to forgive and the ability to admit when they are

wrong

check

Someone who does not get defensive when criticized

check

Someone who loves to dance and actually CAN, who likes going out but prefers

to stay home most of the time

check

Someone adventurous and spontaneous

hmm…let me think about this one…

Someone with loyalty

check!

Someone who has a decent body but doesn't look like a body builder who spends

5 hours in the gym every day

check!

Someone who loves art and either contributes or frequents Art walks and art

gallery shows

no check…but he does like pretty pictures

Someone who loves building or fixing things and is good with his hands

hmm…not sure…

Someone with common sense

CHECK!

Someone who doesn't snore incessantly or have annoying nervous habits

lol…*shrugs*

Someone romantic

I’m thinking he’d get a check here…

Someone who isn't overbearing, needy/codependent or possessive

check

Someone who can give you your space when you need it and doesn't hang out ALL

THE TIME early on in a relationship

Check!

Someone who has a job that they love

check!

Someone ambitious

check check check!!!!

Someone mellow and non-violent

check!

Someone who is optimistic and always looks on the bright side

check!

Someone who is street smart and not overly conservative
(but not a criminal either)

check…I think “he” could manage to take care of himself in a dark alley…

Someone who is not a hypocrite

check

Someone supportive

a million checks!!!

Someone who is sexually adventurous, yet knows his heart is faithful to only

one woman

hmmm I dunno…damn…I dunno…

Someone with great hygiene - takes care of his body, hair, teeth, nails

a huge check…just cause of that HAIR!

Someone who knows how to show his appreciation for what is given to him

check!

Someone who will give me as much as I give him physically and emotionally

I’m thinking he’d get a check hard to tell via wires…but I’m betting on a check

Someone extremely sexy and sexually confident

check!

Someone who keeps his home clean and organized

half a check…I’ve seen that bed…lol Someone who leaves work at work, and doesn't sit at the computer for hours on end when spending time with me

hmmm…not sure…but this wasn’t a biggie for me and thats what he does for a living so...thats different

Someone who is a great cook and loves great restaurants

lol…no check on the great cook…but I’m thinking he likes great restaurants with big leather chairs…

Someone who loves cuddling as much as sex - passing the cuddle test is a hard

one for most guys because they always get aroused too easily

not sure…but I'm thinking he's the kind that would be happy just to cuddle too

Someone who looks young for his age but not like a high school graduate

CHECK!

Someone who listens and tries to understand all points of views and opinions

he may or may not agree with before passing judgment

check!

Someone who doesn't stereotype people

hmmm not sure……

Someone who is non-possessive or over protective

check

Someone who can defend himself and his views with maturity and logic but who

isn't afraid to fight if provoked or forced to

check

Someone who doesn't get jealous easily and accepts all my friends without

being suspicious of them (most of my friends are male)

check! “jealousy is just a worthless emotion induced by mistrust” - him

Someone who doesn't jump to conclusions without listening to the entire story

check

Someone who can still be friends with his ex-girlfriends

check

Someone who is a great kisser

says he is…he doesn’t lie so I gotta give him a check!

Someone who is on my side and not against me

check!!!!

Someone who can trust enough to be able to tell me anything as if he were

talking to his best friend and not his "girlfriend"

I think he has this capability! Check!

Someone who knows how to live simply even if he is a millionaire

check!

Someone who loves hot candlelit baths or sitting in a Jacuzzi under the stars

I’ll have to ask…

Someone who likes to be pampered and knows how to relax

no check…can’t ever relax…

Someone who will pick flowers for me if he can't buy them for me - the effort

is so flattering & really shows he cares

flowers…hmm I think he would...tulips.but even if he didn't do the flower thing...who cares..he does the gift thing like a pro...so check!

Someone who is not a sports fanatic but occasionally watches playoff games in most sports

Check…he watches no sports

Someone who knows how to have fun

double check!

Someone who isn't afraid of commitment

*grumble grumble* I can't honestly answer this one yet.

Someone who isn't overly religious

check!

Someone who always does what he says he is going to do, and always keeps his word

CHECK CHECK CHECK CHECK

Someone who likes me for who I am and doesn't try to change me - instead grows with me

hmmm…he’s always tried to help me change about myself only what I have said I want to change…Check

Someone who really gets to know me before saying "I love you"

go’zillion checks!

Someone who isn't afraid to be up front and honest when he makes a mistake,

instead of covering it up with lies or trying to justify it when he knows it was wrong

Check!

Someone who can apologize and understands that we are all human and make

mistakes we sometimes regret

Check!

Someone who has been in more than a few relationships but came out of them

knowing what he wants and has his own list of what his perfect girl would be as

long as this list of mine

not sure……but I’m sure he knows what he’s looking for.

Someone who doesn't think the world is out to make them miserable or that the

world owes them a favor

Check!

Someone with an active imagination

Check!

Someone who doesn't get overly depressed when everything in his life has gone

wrong because he knows I'm on his side and would do anything to help him in his

time of need

Check!

Someone who is compassionate

Check!

Someone who understands that we only live once and must make the most of our

time here on earth

Check! Unused time is wasted time!

Someone who appreciates nature

Check!

Someone who loves to learn new things and /or different ways of doing things

Check Check Check!

Someone who values his privacy as well as mine

Check!

Someone who remembers my birthday

Check! *grins*

Someone unpredictable

Go’zillion checks!

Someone who loves without overdoing it, forgetting about themselves and their

own needs

Check…you have to keep your own needs high in priority….he taught me that one!

Someone who gets along with my dogs

think he would…

Someone who gives great back rubs and really puts in the effort to relax you

if they offer you one

I wish I could check this…

Someone who loves getting backrubs

grrr I wish I knew

Someone who loves being pampered and doesn't see my giving nature as a sign of

weakness or co-dependency (I love to pamper….)

not sure…

Someone who doesn't take out his problems or anger out on me

ut oh! There’s that nasty word…anger….

Someone who remembers what its like being a kid

Check..he knows how to laugh and have a good time…

Someone who has dealt with problems, events, or issues in his past so that he

has become a stronger person who knows he deserves happiness and is able to move

on with his life in a positive light

go’zillion checks

Someone who doesn't compare me to other women he dated in the past or assumes

that I think the same way most women do

Check!

Someone who will hold me all night and take care of me when I am sick or hurt

Hmm…I’m thinking I could check this one…but I can’t cause I don’t know…

Someone who will make me feel safe and protected when he holds me

I gotta check this…cause he makes me feel that way when we talk…

Someone who always makes me sigh when I look at him - the type of guy I can

always pick out of a crowd

Check!

Someone who can keep a secret

Check!

Someone who doesn't think he is better than other people

Check!

Someone who likes being nude and looks great nude

lol…what was I thinking?

Someone who will help you forget your problems the minute he smiles at you and

tells you that everything will be ok

he doesn't tell me that everything will be ok...but he does try to help me every chance he gets and he does cheer me up when I'm down...so check

Someone I can learn from and is willing and eager to show me new things or new

ways of looking at the world

Go’zillion checks

Someone who doesn't hold grudges

Check

Someone who doesn't keep things bottled up and brewing inside - being up front

and honest always solves this one

Check!

Someone who doesn't have double standards, is hypocritical or can't give what

he receives in a relationship

Check!

Someone who is fair and knows how to compromise

Check!

Someone who can actually stop and smell the flowers when they see one that

catches his eye - then picks it and brings it home to me :)

hmmm……

Someone playfully spirited

Triple go’zillion checks

Someone who can take a joke and tell one

Check for sure

Someone modest yet confident

lol…modesty? lol hahahaha awwww but he’s confident for sure…

Someone who buys nice gifts or makes them for you

major giant CHECK

Someone who is considerate of other people even if he doesn't like them very much

lol…considerate of people he doesn’t like…nah…lol but it’s cute as hell…

Someone who isn't afraid to talk about past relationships

Check

Someone who takes time to relax and think about what he’s is going to say

before getting in an argument or approaching me about something that bothers

him; yet, does it in a way that he sticks to the point at hand, is considerate

of your feelings, even if angry, and does so without insulting you or bringing

up the past or past arguments

oh boy is that a complicated thing to think about…

Someone who likes a change of scenery every once in a while by rearranging his

home or changing the color scheme of a room

I don’t know if he does this, but I do know he’s not afraid of major changes…not at all

Someone who is not predictable

FUCKING HUGE CHECK!

Someone who loves getting out of town for weekend trips every chance he gets

hmmm…I don't think so..but why did this matter to me except for I don't want someone with no adventurous nature..he has that.

Someone who isn't afraid of introducing me to friends or family

well I got introduced to the roomate..does that count?

Someone who isn't afraid of asking for help and can recognize when he needs it

I think he’d ask if it was necessary but is confident

Someone who makes an effort to understand me even though it may not be easy sometimes

Huge Check

Someone who has more than one option to solve a problem

mucho checks

Someone who can write or who is at least willing to give it a shot for my benefit

He can write… He wrote some pretty kewl songs

Someone who looks to the future

Check

Someone who listens to his heart and his instincts

hmm…

Someone who can give and take criticism

Check

Someone romantic

Check

Someone who dreams

Check

Someone who has his own list of standards, without being a perfectionist

Check

Someone that reads everything I have to say

on my websites because he wants to truly know me

Check! I think……*PoeticaL scratches her head*…..he didn't know paul westerberg…